the danger of Truth

recently got in a very big big big problem regarding truth. to tell or not to tell.
the probel is just like

eg: when u sittin with ur friend on a grass patch than an ant just happily walk pass her. do u tell ur friend who is very scard of the ant or just keep quite.
to tell: the potential danger is that she will stand up and wack the ants. life lost.(negative)(chance 100%)
not to tell: the ant may just walk pass and notting happen. happy ending.(50%) But there might also be a risk that the ant will bite her. than she will wack the ants. ant die(chance:50%)

often, friends are stuck on such gray area. donno to do wat. what will you do? won't you hope to have a happy ending although the chance is only like 50 by 50? that are usually what firends have to bear. the pain of not telling the truth. u think easy arh~... u try la...

one more eg: ur firend got cancer. will u tell her n let her live her last few days in worry and grive or not to tell her and let her last few days b a meaningful and carefree one.

summary: from now on i respect any thing hidden from mi... not to b so kpo liao...